You've been wanting to call it quits with this girl you're seeing but you can't break her heart or you're scared of how she will react and you know you won't be able to handle that. What are you gonna do??
It is scientifically evident that girls could get into drama more so than guys. (Yes, it's biology people!) We tend to be oversensitive, more emotional and less rational sometimes. Unfortunately, men have very minute understanding of these inevitable moments and would rather not deal with it more often than not. Hence, they do the stupidest things..
Breaking up is always hard. Even Nelly asks why all good things come to an end... However, sometimes it's just what we gotta do. But how? How are you gonna break it to her gently? Well sometimes, you just can't.
First off, and most importantly, cut the bs. We don't need you to be creative about it. It's not like asking a girl out. No more sparks, no more butterflies and rainbows, no gimmicks. However, allot time and just enough effort to say it to her face. Yes, she might cry; she might shout at you; she might plead desperately for another chance; surely you don't want to see that but you owe her an explanation. So you have to have the guts to talk to her personally. Sorry, you can't cut the drama. Deal with it.
If you're thinking of writing her a note on a post-it like what you do with your grocery list, do not even try.
If you're thinking a letter would suffice and make her stop asking, no.
If you're planning to use a lame cliche line that you got from a movie as an excuse, you're wasting time.
If you're just going to send her an SMS or call, grow some balls dude.
Have the decency to tell it to her personally. There's nothing you can do to ease the potential pain. She deserves to know and ask. She's entitled to cry and you can't blame her if she can't hide her feelings.
Another thing, while you're at it, don't tell her lies (anymore). Be honest because no excuse can make it better. Nothing would make it less painful. Lying would even make it worse. You owe her the truth. She'll need it to be able to move on. She has to know what went wrong. She has to know where she went wrong.
Break it to me gently, but if you'll have to tell me lies then screw that. I can be brave and strong enough to hear the truth. There's no need to make up excuses and reasons. You can even blame me and accuse me of being the worst girlfriend but I would need some explanation, because I deserve it.
You guys can always try to make things less complicated and skip all the drama but sometimes the situation won't allow you. You can blame our hormones or say that some parts of our brain are bigger and you guys have damaged corpus callosum (hahaha)... Or maybe we just invest so much.. we can't help that our way to cope and not die completely inside is be that outrageous drama queen you're scared of.
We are girls, we're complex and difficult but we are stronger than you think (duh, we run the world!).
