"We deserve an explanation!"

So i watched "Starting Over Again" (Starring Piolo Pascual & Toni Gonzaga) for the nth time today.. #Walapalatalagangforever :( 

Everytime my mom and i watch this movie, there's never fail that my mom would comment on how she hates the ending and that Marco should've ended up with Ginny and not the girl na kamukha ni Mama Mary (lols). But I guess besides not having the usual expected "happy ending," it was a big hit to the Pinoy audience because it was rather a big slap in the (or your) face and sometimes that's just what we (you) need. Sabi nga ni John Green, pain needs to be felt. But dont you lose hope, my dear... Di naman sa #walangforever... Meron naman.. With the right person ;)

You've probably shared the same sentiments with Ginny, one way or another (kaya nga pinaulit ulit mo rin di ba?) and thought about all the possible reasons why he had to leave you and worse, looked for someone else (na di hamak naman na mas chaka sayo!!). And yes, i know, mabaliw baliw ka nun. Eh di ba ikaw lang naman yung perfect para sa kanya so pano sya nakahanap ng iba?! :( Pano nawala yung spark? Is it even possible that he has fallen OUT OF LOVE?! 

According to some genius, love is a battlefield so you have to fight, fight, fight..for your love :p but have you ever asked yourself, does s/he want you to fight for whatever you think is worth fighting for? Are you really sure there's still something left or feelingera ka lang parang si Ginny? Yes, love is worth fighting for but for how long?? Kung ang kasing-gwapo nga ni Papa P, sinusukuan, jowa mo pa ba? Jk! :)) anyway, too many questions... We deserve an explanation! *feels*

There's nothing better than having the privilege of having someone to love and to be loved back. At some point in your life, you'll meet somebody who you think would be the answer to all your prayers; the one who will suck you out of the blackhole that you've been in your entire life; the one who will light up your sad, dark universe; the one who will save you from all the heart breaks; the one you'll do anything and everything for... The one.. 

To have that "forever" with the person you have invested your whole heart and soul would be the best thing that can ever happen and just thinking otherwise is the most devastating thing evurrr. Yet there are unfortunate events that we can't control which may lead to that, like what happened to the movie that i was talking about earlier. I know... It's like the whole universe is against you and no matter how much you try and fight, YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. 

When you think everything is perfectly in place, life suddenly hits you and it hits you hard! ... cause life's a btch like that. Sasabihin nya nalang sayo bigla, it's over or there's someone else, i dont love you anymore, it's not you, it's me.. Mga lines na akala mo sa movies lang ginagamit, pwede rin pala sayo.. Minsan, maka-linya lang okay na, wala man lang reasons! O_O Dito na papasok ang #walangforever drama natin. Apparently, falling out is inevitable but i believe that it only happens to couples in relationships that could not work. What?! Why?! How?! There can be a million reasons why s/he fell out of love with you so hindi ko kayang isa-isahin. Alam mo na yan! Buttttt... We should always remember that a relationship is made up of a couple who are both always excited and happy and in love for the relationship to work and if things fck up, always willing to work things out. 

Eh bakit ba kasi hindi pa sya makuntento maging "the one" ko? 

Maybe our relationships don't work out sometimes and some people just choose to leave because their role is to teach and allow us to know ourselves more. They exist for us to allow ourselves to grow, be better, be stronger. Or maybe to keep us busy (pwede rin di ba?:))) and make the ride worthwhile. Who knows right? Magpaka-positive nalang tayo mga bruh!

We should aspire for a relationship with just enough respect, trust and allowance for mistakes (got this from the movie! Haha). Point is, dapat kayong dalawa.. You have to be on the same page for it to work...to make it work. If not, maybe it's time to reconsider? No matter how much you fight for it, nothing will happen when the other party won't fight with you. Alam kong matapang ka kaya mo pinaglalaban :) kahit na gaano ka pa kapagod at kahirap. So keep that in mind! Matapang ka... Don't be afraid to start over again. ;)

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